December 1, 2020

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Sidechick Academy: lecture 104

Sidechick Academy: lecture 104


What is it about a side chick that makes her so darn appealing to the man who already has a wife?

The side chick is not unknown in modern relationships, or in relationships of previous eras for that matter.

She is the mistress, a concubine, the other woman, the one who never comes home, the hidden one that no one knows, the force behind the scenes that the man cannot resist. The side chick is the babe over whom the man is willing to risk it all.

From the university undergraduate to the grandma traveling abroad to care for her grandkids, women of all ages are pretty familiar with her. Only a few have been fortunate [or is it unfortunate?] to see her face or come in contact with her, but her legend can’t be missed nor can her looming shadow over a relationship or marriage be denied.

Most times after this great encounter or discovery, the question that women find themselves asking, either rhetorically in the darkness and still silence of their empty beds or to the man’s face when he quietly tiptoes through the front door late in the night is; what is special about her?

Some phrase theirs as ‘what does she have that I don’t?’ and ‘what does she give you that I don’t?’ but the essence of those questions remains the same all the time. Women want to know what it is about the side chick that makes her a better woman than they are.

And young Nigerian men in their mid-twenties and mid-thirties are dishing out reasons why that other woman gets their attention over the woman they should be giving that attention to.


From my understanding I will outline a few points here:

  1. Wild sex
  2. Less problematic
  3. Less drama
  4. peace of mind (no nagging)
  5. Less commitment
  6. Crazy vacation ideas
  7. Less stress

There are issues in relationships that ultimately put a strain on men, such as money, extended family palaver, stuff to do with kids, rent, and the expectation of a certain level of accountability drain men at some point in their life and they feel like being free.

Remember a side chick doesn’t have to expect much except trips, money and sex.

Having a side chick is justifiable, provided that the man get the necessary peace of mind he deserves and not under any diabolical enchantment

Dear Wives, if you can do all these and he still keeps her, then pray harder it might have gone beyond what your ordinary eye can see…

#datmediagal cares

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