Don’t Be Selfish, If You Want A Total Patriarchy System Of Marriage By Awurum D.
One of the problems we have around this space is our inability to either process or filter information. Some people are too fickle, some naive and some gullible; the information they absorb in this space without the ability to process or filter completely, affects their social lives, marital lives, work and business lives, then spiritual lives.
There are some people you listen to and your brain will gradually turn to Fibre and Sawdust. Because you get indoctrinated and fanatical.
Don’t allow anyone teach you in error. You see these two screenshots down here? Don’t be surprised how many people who absorbed and are practicing it already.
A little thing brings an endless conflict in your marriage and you spend the rest of your energy trying to make it right again. This is for both men and women.
Supposedly, we should do every marriage under Prenup. Let there be PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT for every marriage since women should have no statutory responsibilities anymore. They should just put their ass*s down, give birth and all is good.
I wonder why these emergency “ndifenemenisi” women are so self-centred with their penchant for taking a few doctrines out from the bible when it favours them, but reject the ones that didn’t put them in the position of comfort. You shouldn’t be selective if you must be all ignorantly religious.
In that same Old Testament book of the bible, women were asked not to speak or congregate in the council of men. But you will vehemently oppose and not heed to it.
1 Timothy 2:11-14 Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.**
1 Timothy 2:13-15
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak…And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home.*
That same Old Testament supports Polygamy and adultery for men. But you will never accept your man taking another woman or having concubines.
2 Samuel 15:16
The king set out, with his entire household following him; but he left ten concubines to take care of the palace.*
But while he was still living, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them away from his son Isaac to the land of the east.*
2 Samuel 12:8
I gave your master’s house to you, and your master’s wives into your arms. I gave you all Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more.*
Read also — Deuteronomy 22:23-24
That same Old Testament says you must be married a virgin even if it’s as a 10th wife, or you be stoned to death for not being a virgin before marriage. Sister you be virgin or should we gather stones?
Deuteronomy 22:20-21 -But suppose the man’s accusations are true, and he can show that she was not a virgin. -The woman must be taken to the door of her father’s home, and there the men of the town must stone her to death, for she has committed a disgraceful crime in Israel by being promiscuous while living in her parents’ home. In this way, you will purge this evil from among you.*
You are only comfortable with the old and “should be” relegated Book of Old Testament which is the book of law and sin.
All these laws, sins and it’s root causes in the Old Testament were all cancelled, decimated, abolished, squashed and destroyed by the death and resurrection of Christ.
HOW CAN CHRIST DIE AND GOD WILL STILL HOLD FIRMLY THE CURSES HE LAID ON HUMANITY FOR ADAM AND EVE’S MISTAKES INCLUDING THE LAWS OF THE ISRAELITES?
You guys want advancement, yet you go back to Old Testament to pick all the cruel relics therein that favours you to torment our tomorrow and still claim “nonsense and feminism.” No vex me.
There is a Cross for everyone. In fact, the best way to live happily is by selflessness between partners. Both knowing their strengths and weaknesses and complimenting each other. It also works even during bachelorhood and spinsterhood.
When you wake up in the morning, take a stroll to any commercial environment near you, before afternoon you would see a lot of married men loading buses, some offloading timbers, cements, rods. Some driving 1989 danfo busses 🚌, some driving heavy duty trucks, trailers and tippers, some tilling sand dumps with shovels and throwing same into the tipper buckets, some harvesting and breaking stones, some dismantling and mantling big truck Engines, some roadside vulcanisers, some pushing trucks, some tricycle (Keke) riders, some motorcycle (Okada) riders, some lifting blocks upto 5 storey high-rise buildings, some moulding blocks; all these men on dirty clothes are doing for family. But you know what? The system still doesn’t pay them the commensurate reward for the labour they put in daily. They do this whole and still go home with peanuts.
Mbanu sister… when your Husband is not at home or handicapped and your kid falls sick, don’t be “forced” to bring out the money you are stockpiling and treat her!
You guys should stop tensioning us!