3 types Of People We’ll Meet In Relationship by Pauline Green
- Those that love you because of what you carry.
They love you, celebrate you, clap for you only because of what you have that they need desperately, and they’ll dump you when they don’t find that thing or when they’re done using you. 90%of people around you only love you because of what you carry that they can benefit from.
This kind of relationship exist between; Pastors and their congregation, celebrities and their fans, maybe you and your best friend 😉 etc.
You’re your biggest fan, always love yourself and don’t put your trust in people’s love for you because they will leave you one day.
- Those that don’t love you but pretends they do.
They do not love you nor believe in you but they come into partnership with you to fight a common enemy and by the time the enemy is defeated, you all go your separate ways.
This kind of relationship exist between; you and area boys A K A. Agberos. You don’t like them but you need them when you have any problem that has to do with fighting.
Some people may not like a particular pastor but will pretend they do because they’re in need of healing and by the time the aim is achieved, they go back to hating them.
Some girls may not like each other but they’ll automatically become friends when they both have a beef with one person 🤷 🙄 😒
- Those that love you for who you are.
They love you not for money, not for anointing, not because of a common enemy or anything they can get from you, they just love you for who you are and not what you are.
You’re the luckiest person on earth if you find up to ten people from this category of people in your life.
This was the relationship that existed between Naomi and Ruth in the Bible. Some of your family members may also be in this category. And you should count it all joy if your spouse happens to be in this category.
If you understand these facts about relationships, you’ll not be unnecessarily worried or depressed when people’s behaviour changes towards you, because you’ve been guilty of it one way or the other too.
Value and cherish those who genuinely love you.