#Relationship: Love is not just Enough by Adaku Quingist
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#Relationship: Love is not just Enough by Adaku Quingist
To keep a marriage…
I love you is never enough.
Why have I decided to dwell on this topic?
Well,
Firstly, seeing what is happening to a lot of marriages today made me decide to be more than ready, and for that to happen I made more research, do, dont, keep, discard, obey, mute, smile, cry, and others,
From what I have learnt so far, I love you is not just enough, what if we are of the same negative genotype, will I love you still keep us knowing very well what the future holds for our kids?
So, my reasons are:
I love you does not solve life issues, Understanding does
I love you dont not change the fact that your schedules are right, Compromise does
I love you does not change the fact that your Character is ugly, but Communication does
I love you does not pay Rents and bills, Money does
Gone are the days when I love you was the reason behind some marriages, those days women will collect the beating of their lives at night, in the morning he is back with wrappers and I love you, it’s the devil’s work and she will continue…
Today’s women/men have learnt from their parents’ predicament,
They are not ready to be beaten to death to realize that they are in love
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Before walking down the aisle,
Make sure you both can:
Compromise
Understand
Communicate
Spend on Each other.
Believe you me, the majority of our men and women want to be on the receiving side always.
Remember, I love you is not just enough reason to walk down the aisle…
Thank you and have a gracious day…
Duru Eunice Adaku
April 7th, 2022